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Friday, October 9, 2026

Hearts Knit Together in Love


I was reading 1 Thessalonians 2:11–12, 2:17–20, and 3:1–7 recently which is Paul’s account of the love he had for the church in Thessaly and how much he longed to see them again or at least get a report of their spiritual well-being. It is a touching and amazing passage.

What’s more amazing is that he only knew these people for THREE WEEKS (Acts 17:2) before he was forcibly expelled. Despite this, he loved them so much that he couldn’t stop praying and worrying about them.

As I was praying through this passage, I realized that Paul had been knit to these people. He would later write to another church, praying that “their hearts may be encouraged, being knit together in love, to reach all the riches of full assurance of understanding and the knowledge of God’s mystery, which is Christ…” (Colossians 2:2). He also noted that a mark of the gospel is a singular-soul, or as the ESV translates it, “one spirit” (Philippians 1:27). He exhorted the church that if Christ is actually God and the Spirit is actually able to work in his church, that the result will be one like mind, joined in soul, and one purpose (Philippians 2:2). The body is knit together (Psalm 139:13), and so is the church body (Colossians 2:19)!

I have always loved the way that David and Jonathan practically became brothers upon their first meeting (1 Samuel 18:1). I have told many pastors throughout the years that they need to pray that God would give them such a love between brothers. By the grace of God I have many such men in my life who I’ve talked to just this week (and others who would talk in an instant if I called or texted) and who have continually lifted me up in prayer and spurred me on through encouragement.

But it has only been recently that I’ve realized that this should not be a singular occurrence; the whole church should be knit to our souls. If they hurt, I should hurt. We all suffer together as we press onwards towards the upward call of Christ.

And hurt it does. Paul’s intense care for the churches led him through many dangers, toils, and snares. As he loved more, he found he was often loved less (2 Corinthians 12:15). Men who ran off into sin and apostasy broke his heart (2 Timothy 4:10, 14). His heart was in constant anguish hoping that they would be saved (Galatians 4:19).

There is a union between all true believers, which is closer than any earthly tie. They are all members of one body... They sympathize with one another in joys and sorrows. ~ J. C. Ryle

God has allowed me to delve the depths of this recently. I was on my way to a doctor’s appointment, only to find out was canceled at the doctor’s office. Before heading back to work I made a quick run into Walmart. Outside the store was a homeless man sitting on the curb with a Bible open on his lap. I asked what God was teaching him and he looked at me longingly and replied, “Not much.” I asked if I could sit with him and we had a very difficult conversation. Bitterness had consumed him and everything in his life was someone else’s fault. I attempted to wound him gently with the Word, and while I didn’t get far, I was able to pray with him. Then I grabbed him something to eat inside. I prayed for him throughout the week. A week later I ran into him at a ministry and initially didn’t recognize him because he was so cleaned up and in his right mind. His bitterness was still rampant, but God showed me who he could be. It wasn’t long before I heard that he had let his anger and malice consume him again and he had probably moved to his home state, but I intend to pray for him as long as I live that Christ would be—or has been—formed in him. Please add him to your prayers.

He who has a heart of flesh will have his heart broken... If you love the souls of men, you will be ready to weep over them, to carry their burdens, and to suffer in their afflictions. ~ Charles Spurgeon

There is a movement by divisive people running rampant right now, claiming that unity is a human work and that relationships should be destroyed and abandoned for self-preservation. I was interested to learn that the New Testament says so much about being of one mind and being knit together among brothers. The opposite is this idea of “boundaries” and “self-preservation”.

That’s not the church, and that’s not Jesus. Paul didn’t get this idea from his own experiences but from the teachings of Christ. In what is called the High Priestly Prayer, Jesus prays for us repeatedly that we would be one (John 17:11, 21-23).

This is hard, because church is hard. But it’s how he puts his church together (Galatians 3:28, Romans 12:4–5, 1 Corinthians 12:12–13, Ephesians 2:14–16, 4:4–6). If you love Jesus, you’ll love his brothers and sisters. If you don’t love his brothers and sisters, it’s because you don’t love him.

In that day you will know that I am in my Father, and you in me, and I in you. ~ John 14:20

Is God knitting your heart to others? Do you want him to? Take a moment and pray about it. This is how the world will know that God sent Jesus, and loved his church. Is your heart knit to Christ? To your brothers and sisters? To the lost?

Don’t you care, don’t you care? Are you gonna let them drown? ~ Keith Green

Why does it hurt so much? Because it’s worth it for Christ’s sake, and the joy and glory to be gained are worth the cost.

The deepest sorrow in human life comes from the deepest love. Paul loved the church so profoundly that her failures, defections, and apostasies broke his heart. To minister effectively is to live in a state of massive, loving vulnerability. ~ John MacArthur


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